You can be qualified and still feel nervous

Hey there,

Have you ever been excited to get an interview… and then immediately started worrying about it?

What if I ramble? What if my mind goes blank? What if I walk out knowing I didn’t explain my experience nearly as well as I could have?

Grab your coffee. Let’s talk about how to prepare when the nerves show up, too.

THIS WEEK’S CAREER TIP

You don’t have to feel completely confident to have a good interview.

Picture this: You’re reviewing a job description, and you can think of several examples of work you’ve done that fits. Then you imagine someone asking you about that experience, and suddenly you’re questioning whether your examples are impressive enough. You start writing longer answers, adding more details, and trying to anticipate every possible question. Before long, preparing feels like studying for a test with no study guide. If that sounds familiar, give yourself a smaller, clearer assignment: identify what this team needs and choose the experiences that show how you could help. You may still feel nervous, but you’ll have something concrete to come back to.

The bottom line: You can feel nervous and still explain your value clearly; preparation gives you something to lean on.

GOOD STUFF THIS WEEK

Here are two simple tools I like for making interview prep more manageable.

Your brag sheet: That running record of accomplishments, positive feedback, and problems you’ve solved is especially useful when you’re second-guessing yourself. I like it because it brings you back to evidence: what you did, how you did it, and what changed because of your work.

Don't have one? Now's the time to start one! Get a copy here: https://www.riseupcareercoach.com/brag-sheet

A voice recording: Answer one interview question out loud and record it on your phone. I like this because it lets you hear where your answer gets buried in background details and practice getting to the point without needing someone available for a mock interview.

A CLOSER LOOK

Give yourself a plan for the moments you’re worried about.

Instead of preparing for every possible question, prepare for the situations that make you feel least steady:

• “I don’t know where to start.” Practice a short introduction that connects what you do now, your most relevant experience, and why this opportunity interests you. Use a few bullet points so you can keep it conversational.

• “I won’t remember a good example.” Build a small bank of four or five stories: a meaningful result, a difficult problem, a disagreement, a change you helped lead, and a mistake you learned from. For each, capture the situation, your specific actions, and the outcome.

• “I’ll ramble.” Practice giving your main answer first, then supporting it with an example. You can finish with, “I’m happy to go deeper into that if helpful.”

• “My mind will go blank.” Have a sentence ready: “Let me take a moment to choose the most relevant example.” You’re allowed to pause; you don’t need to fill every second.

• “I’ll be so focused on impressing them that I forget my questions.” Write down three things you need to understand about the role. Their expectations, the team’s challenges, and the manager’s approach matter to your decision, too.

The day before, check the practical details: the meeting link or route, your technology, the time zone, and who you’re meeting. Give yourself a few quiet minutes beforehand so you can arrive without rushing. Keep any notes brief enough to glance at, rather than read from. And if one answer feels awkward, return your attention to the next question, you still have more of your experience to share.

You’re bringing years of experience into this conversation. One imperfect sentence doesn’t erase that.

Before you go: Hit reply and tell me which part of interviewing makes you most nervous: getting started, answering unexpected questions, or explaining your accomplishments.

💛 Alyssa Bailey

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